Day 89
Observation
Incest, murder, intrigue, rebellion—the story of David's family from chapter 12 on reads like a horror story. But the worst is yet to come. Absalom, David's favorite and most undisciplined son, seizes the opportunity to upsurp his father's throne. After sowing discontent among the people, Absalom makes a dramatic and unsuspected invasion of Jerusalem, forcing David to flee for his life. In his flight David is deceived by Ziba, maligned by Shimei and befriended by Barzilla! But he owes his life largely to Hushai, who remains behind in Jerusalem and counsels Absalom to mount a careful and delayed attack, rather than pursue immediately. When the battle is joined in the forest of Ephraim, Absalom's dreams of power come to a "hair-raising" end.
Application
What do Monday morning quarterbacks and many politicians speeches have in common? They are always right because they are always based on 20/20 hindsight.
Absalom would have made a good Monday morning quarterback. Certainly he was an outstanding politician, for he won the hearts of the people by second-guessing the decisions of the king and promising the people what they desired, though he had no authority to grant it.
When a mistake has been made, do not hesitate to give open, honest criticism to the person responsible. Wrong decisions cannot be ignored. But watch the human tendency to become an armchair general. All statements beginning "if I had been there" are dangerous. Focus your efforts this week on providing positive support, rather than negative second-guessing—we would all appreciate the same.
Absalom would have made a good Monday morning quarterback. Certainly he was an outstanding politician, for he won the hearts of the people by second-guessing the decisions of the king and promising the people what they desired, though he had no authority to grant it.
When a mistake has been made, do not hesitate to give open, honest criticism to the person responsible. Wrong decisions cannot be ignored. But watch the human tendency to become an armchair general. All statements beginning "if I had been there" are dangerous. Focus your efforts this week on providing positive support, rather than negative second-guessing—we would all appreciate the same.
Prayer
Lord help us to be our brothers and sisters keeper. Not wanting what other have but lift them up and contribute to their success by telling them directly where they are wrong or lacking directly rather then participating negatively in their fate. The world needs more love, help us to love one another more! In Jesus name, amen!
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